Tell everyone you know: "My happiness depends on me, so you are off the hook." And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they are doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel- and then, you will love them all. Because the only reason you don't love them, is because you are using them as an excuse to not feel good. HAPPINESS IS AN INSIDE JOB!